![]() 06/05/2015 at 16:29 • Filed to: None | ![]() | ![]() |
Imagine my surprise when I clicked over to an interesting piece on Jezebel, wrote a reply to someone whose viewpoint I agreed with...and found that I was an approved commenter over there. Any of you who have seen my posts probably would be as shocked as I was (and still am) about this.
Meanwhile, after being a visitor to this site since the beginning and a user for about the last 6-7 years, I still cannot get one single FP writer to approve my comments or even acknowledge them. I’m about ready to call it quits, I used to enjoy that place, but it’s clear that they aren’t interested in the way things used to be. I certainly don’t need it to survive, and god knows there’s more important uses of my time than Jalopnik. But, there were many people I had gotten to know who I now cannot interact with, since my comments many times don’t even show up. I enjoyed the community at one point in time, now I no longer can and it feels rather empty.
I still enjoy Oppo though, even though I don’t get a chance to engage much with the people here. I’m hoping someone from the other side sees this and has the fortitude to explain this, otherwise I suppose I’ll just become a casual Oppo reader and not much else.
I hate drawing attention to myself more than almost anything in the world, but I feel this isn’t about me, and there’s several others who feel this way. And we already lost KDS due to the same type of behavior from the FP writers. I cringe at the thought of this continuing. Hopefully this pseudo-censorship thing they’ve got going on can be fixed.
Have some pornography for your time, gents and ladies -
![]() 06/05/2015 at 16:33 |
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I am also approved over at Jezebel and I totally have no idea how that happened.
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Clearly the world is in turmoil and everything wrong is right
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Well good thing for you that Jalopnik isn’t our front page anymore...
![]() 06/05/2015 at 16:36 |
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Nice porn. It’s pretty random. but generally I only see you post on Tavarish’s posts, probably because we never see eye to eye on them.
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Ironically it seems to be really easy to be approved on Jezebel. Still think that grays are used to control the comments. I find that it’s nearly impossible to be ungrayed on deadspin.
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Yeah I mean that’s the only ones where I show up. Unfortunately I’ve noticed that since my banishment to the grey, my comments never really seem to show up on the other general FP pages. Idk if the site is borked on my end but that just seems to be the case.
![]() 06/05/2015 at 16:39 |
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For me it’s just more about the fact that they just don’t seem to care about it there, and that saddens me. Like I said...it doesn’t ultimately affect me, it’s a website made of 1s and 0s. But...it was fun the old way, I thought. Either way, Oppo is still fun and enjoyable.
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I got approved over there right in the midst of rape-gif 20XX...no clue how. I probably only visit once every month or so.
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I’ve commented a few times on Deadspin but coincidentally not much since the grey thing was instated. I realize why it’s there but it was just very disappionting that they stripped me of it after I had been “approved” or whatever term they used before, for years, and then once they took it away, refused to acknowledge it whatsoever. Seemed a bit childish..but hey, I can’t force their hands.
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That’s astonishing. I don’t even know how it happened for me, in fact I’m certain it must’ve been recently because I never was until now. I am everything they love to hate over there, I can’t help but laugh. At least they have the balls to allow people to comment who they disagree with, it seems...
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Well, on Jalopnik, after many well meaning long form intelligent comments I was pulled from the gray by making an incredibly over played (and not especially funny) joke about the BRZ not having enough power.
Tis a mystery how they select.
![]() 06/05/2015 at 16:52 |
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Kat’s pretty cool with approving commenters. I asked and got approved.
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Evan, I’m pretty much of a noob to all of this but my suspicion is that there is simply an immense volume of traffic on those boards and the mods — or whatever they are called — can’t keep up with it.
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The thing that gets me is that I was approved, for a while, then they pulled it after I was swarmed by a rather angry group of feminists after suggesting that women in third world countries were far more oppressed than white, middle-aged feminist housewives in America. It was on that post about the asshole in Saudi Arabia (I believe) who basically said “We don’t let women drive here in case the car brakes down and they get raped by the side of the road”...got cross-posted to half the Gawker sites, cause clicks, and hilarity ensued. Shortly after that I was banned to the greys, and all attempts to regain it back have been ignored. So...yeah. I don’t know.
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I’d agree except I was approved and then they pulled it. And it happened on the same day on both Giz and Jalop, two sites I was very active (and approved on) for years. So that seems more than a little suspicious. Otherwise I’d totally agree.
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I’ve asked a bunch, believe me. I wouldn’t be so suspicious if they hadn’t taken away my approval in the first place.
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I have at least a dozen comments with triple digit stars at deadspin. Forever gray. I may be on a list.
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Jez and Deadspin are the only two main pages I’m not approved on. I really want to get them all just to say that I’ve got them all ;)
But I really want to get authorship privledge on Oppo. Haven't gotten there yet.
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Gawker is a shitty company
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Thinning the herd, perhaps? The whole thing seems arbitrary and capricious. Maybe it’s nature’s way of helping us figure out what the important things in life are. Have you tried sending an email?
![]() 06/08/2015 at 12:33 |
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I might try that, it seems so silly to escalate it like that but I suppose its worth a shot. I do recall when KDS tried that, he got some snark and then was ignored some more, so I’ve sort of assumed it wasn’t worth the time.
![]() 06/08/2015 at 12:34 |
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I can agree with that.
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If you ask someone on one of the posts they should be able to do it for you. You should, it’s lots of fun. It’s better over here anyway.
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I’m new here, as I said before, but I’ve been around the track a few times, including public school administration. The snark reply to KDS, if we read the same one, was vague. I really think that the people running the show are completely buried and also thoroughly distracted by deciding whether or not to unionize.
I think you have everything to gain by sending an email. The editor-in-chief of Jalopnik — Travis Okulski — comes across as very reasonable in an email message. I bet if you sent him a polite email using the same tone you’ve used in this thread with me, you’d get a satisfying response. You probably already know this, but his email is travis@jalopnik.com
Most of us take our commenting seriously and want to be taken seriously and you probably got canned by mistake or in some sort of purge or clean-up.
![]() 06/08/2015 at 15:40 |
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I think KDS made somewhat of a spectacle of his inquiry.
![]() 06/08/2015 at 16:09 |
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Hopefully I’m able to work it out.
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I’d like to know how it works out for you.
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But you wouldn’t be escalating; you’d be making an inquiry.
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Thanks, I’ll update this post if I make any progress.
![]() 06/13/2015 at 15:08 |
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Yeah. I stand by my hypothesis. Overwhelmed meets incompetence.
![]() 07/07/2015 at 13:17 |
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I had a comment a few months back on the FP that got 90-something stars and I'm still in the gray. Then again, I got comment-raped on a crossposted FP article about a year ago so maybe that's why. Did you ever get approved?
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I emailed them and got it straightened out, apparently I had been “blocked” or something. But yeah I’m approved now. Sounds like what happened to me...you should try emailing the higher-ups and see what happens.
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Eh I’m not too terribly concerned about it, I post on Oppo and the CL and some of the sub-blogs have ungreyed me. Was just curious to see how it turned out for you is all
![]() 07/22/2015 at 01:06 |
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Sure thing. Hope your situation works out.
![]() 12/16/2015 at 00:36 |
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Fancy this.
Approving comments means we have to actually approve of them. I skim the comments on my posts or the larger posts from others, but this greying setup is the only way to keep everybody (but you guys) happy.
Glad to see you’re still around.