Wait a tick. That means I'm single again!

"Haimatox" (haimatox)
02/10/2015 at 22:54 • Filed to: None

On a serious note, I'm actually kind of upset. That said, I was going to break up with her anyways, so I guess that means she did the hard part for me (still hurts like a bitch, though). I've already stated the issues we were having yesterday, so that back-story is there.

After rehearsal today, I told her I needed to talk to her. She said she did too.

Uh oh , my mind says. *Bracing*

"There's no easy way to say this..." FUCK! I immediately knew where she was going. I agreed that it was for the better, and she walked away.

Apparently she hasn't felt a connection lately, but only God knows how long that's been the case. She did at the beginning, but I don't know when it stopped. We do have different interests, so her statements are not completely unfounded. However, she was making deliberate excuses to not hang out or talk lately, so she's not entirely without blame.

I did what I think is the gentlemanly thing, by sincerely wishing her the best of luck in everything she does and explaining that I will always be here if she needs someone to talk to. She responds with "As will I." Ha. Just like everything else she's been saying before today: fatuous, overly concise, and meaningless. I can't imagine this hurt her too badly.

Come commiserate with me, single Opponauts!

DISCUSSION (39)

Rico > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:03

Sorry to hear but you'll be good. You're a Senior about to head to college, there's so many new opportunities that are waiting. Just try to keep your eyes in your head as you go around campus.

Jayhawk Jake > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:03

Aren't you in high school?

RockThrillz89 > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:04

Kinja'd!!!

Welcome back to the land of single people. Glad to see you're handling it well, or at least appear to be. And it sounds like you did the right thing.

Argent > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:04

Even though it might hurt, that's probably the least painful kind of breakup you could have.

Besides, more money for yourself:

Kinja'd!!!

norskracer98-ExploringTheOutback > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:04

Unfortunately I don't have a How I Met Your Mother gif for this situation. Sucks though, at least you got out of it before it got even more stupid or something.

Haimatox > Jayhawk Jake
02/10/2015 at 23:05

Yup. I know, I know. I have many more opportunities ahead in my life, etc.

Haimatox > Rico
02/10/2015 at 23:05

In other words, rinse and repeat? Hahaha.

Haimatox > RockThrillz89
02/10/2015 at 23:06

I hope I did. And I think I am.

Haimatox > Argent
02/10/2015 at 23:07

It could have been a lot worse... It could have been one of the "I hate you!" breakups...

Haimatox > norskracer98-ExploringTheOutback
02/10/2015 at 23:07

I don't want to know what would have happened if it kept going...

Rico > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:07

Lol man all I'm saying is college is great, take advantage of any parties you hear about and be open to making friends and you'll always have something to do in your down time that doesn't involve studying.

norskracer98-ExploringTheOutback > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:08

Probably have tried to get out of it? Hard to tell really though, to be honest.

Chuck 2(O=[][]=O)2 > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:08

Rock out with your cock out, my friend

Jayhawk Jake > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:08

I just can't feel a lot of sympathy for high school breakups.

It's high school. When you're older and look back on it, you'll realize how ridiculous the whole thing was

RockThrillz89 > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:08

Based off what you said, that's about all you can do. Just be polite and move along. When is that orchestra thing you had the fundraiser for? That should help give you something to look forward to if you start to get down and out about it.

ttyymmnn > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:09

Lather , rinse, repeat.

Haimatox > Chuck 2(O=[][]=O)2
02/10/2015 at 23:09

I've heard that expression a few too many times haha... I would, if there weren't severe legal consequences.

Haimatox > Jayhawk Jake
02/10/2015 at 23:10

I'm sure. But I'm in high school, so fuck it. I'm going to live high school while I can, before shit gets real.

Haimatox > RockThrillz89
02/10/2015 at 23:10

That was last Saturday... Hahaha. Orchestra is all year long though. It's fun.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > RockThrillz89
02/10/2015 at 23:10

Where'd you find my studying schedule??

ttyymmnn > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:11

I was going to break up with her anyways

So, win-win?

Haimatox > ttyymmnn
02/10/2015 at 23:12

Close enough...

RockThrillz89 > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:12

Well shit. I'm all out of sage advice.

Haimatox > RockThrillz89
02/10/2015 at 23:13

Haha you helped already. Thanks, man.

ttyymmnn > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:14

I've been married for almost 25 years, but I didn't marry the first girl I kissed. It's hard, but it will pass. When the right one comes along, you'll know. It'll feel like somebody punched you in the chest and left you gasping for air.

RockThrillz89 > Haimatox
02/10/2015 at 23:16

Kinja'd!!!

One last bit, for you to remember when you get back in the game.

66671 - 200 [METRIC] my dash > Jayhawk Jake
02/10/2015 at 23:26

Is that a proper excuse not to get into them in the first place?

Jayhawk Jake > 66671 - 200 [METRIC] my dash
02/10/2015 at 23:30

In high school, sure.

Rico > 66671 - 200 [METRIC] my dash
02/10/2015 at 23:35

No, you need the relationship experiences to learn and grow.

You can't wait until your late 20s and 30s to finally have a relationship with someone and if you do:

Kinja'd!!!

Manwich - now Keto-Friendly > Haimatox
02/11/2015 at 00:12

Makes me think of this:

Steve in Manhattan > Haimatox
02/11/2015 at 00:12

It took me until I was 42 to find the right one (going on 12 years now). You'll have a lot of practice relationships. If you want, see if you can get her back, then dump her. It will be practice for you both.

Manwich - now Keto-Friendly > ttyymmnn
02/11/2015 at 00:14

"It'll feel like somebody punched you in the chest and left you gasping for air."

That sounds more like the divorce part than the falling in love part...

/been married and divorced.

Dr. Zoidberg - RIP Oppo > Jayhawk Jake
02/11/2015 at 00:33

I agree but remember, he is still in high school. Things are dramatic and he can't look back yet. I tell people the same thing, but I was right there like he was, like near everyone was. God I do not miss it.

Dr. Zoidberg - RIP Oppo > ttyymmnn
02/11/2015 at 00:39

How romantic <3

Actually that's pretty accurate. You also know when you found the one when your game plan falls flat on it's face and your winning line is, " So I was wondering like... You know..."

Just4GP > Haimatox
02/11/2015 at 01:08

Here's a nice custom wagon to get you through the evening.

Kinja'd!!!

Jimmy Tango > Haimatox
02/11/2015 at 01:40

I am an old man who play softball.

As we in softball said, "it's okay to selling out for home run, but the winning secret is single to death."

I have a family, and I wouldn't trade the world for it. But single isn't the worst thing ever. That just meant the world of opportunity.

Or, should I said, the world of on ramp ?

ttyymmnn > Dr. Zoidberg - RIP Oppo
02/11/2015 at 07:20

Needs more than one star.

ttyymmnn > Manwich - now Keto-Friendly
02/11/2015 at 07:21

I've never been divorced, but maybe it's more like a punch in the gut? Or the wallet?

Manwich - now Keto-Friendly > ttyymmnn
02/11/2015 at 11:22

Yeah, both of those too...