Being angry at everything kind of sucks

"YSI-what can brown do for you" (ysi-what-can-brown-do-for-you)
02/20/2014 at 23:34 • Filed to: None

I can't explain it either. I just hate everything. This has been going on for the last 2 months as well. Luckily I have contained my inner asshole. Fun fact though, Scion played a song by these guys when they unveiled the FRS at New York.

DISCUSSION (47)

pfftballer > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:36

Being angry at anything sucks. Like I tell my children, you must learn to master your emotions or others who can control their own will control you.

YSI-what can brown do for you > pfftballer
02/20/2014 at 23:37

That's the thing, I don't know what I am angry at. I just get annoyed really quickly for no reason what so ever.

puddler > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:37

puberty?

when you figure out why you specifically hate something, you learn something. and hate it less in effect. although, if you broaden the scope of any given hate you learn nothing & eventually will hate yourself.

#philosopnik

YSI-what can brown do for you > puddler
02/20/2014 at 23:38

I am 21! I am way past puberty. Even when I was a teenager I wasn't this annoyed. Usually, I am pretty relaxed when it comes to basically everything, but for some reason I am not. I can't put my finger on it either.

Bandit > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:41

Just let it out (in a safe way not involving murder). Containing an inner asshole is very hard to do, trust me.

pfftballer > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:42

Well you need to be aware of what triggers this anger. You can call it nothing if you choose, but I'll bet it's something in particular. I had the same problem in my 20s. Just try to maintain awareness of your mental state, and when you feel yourself drifting into anger, find a way to get back to center. Anger feeds on its own momentum, don't let it get away from you. If you get mad enough, being angry feels good and it feasts on the innumerable things in this world there are to be mad about. Learn to stay out of that zone, don't feed the anger troll.

YSI-what can brown do for you > Bandit
02/20/2014 at 23:44

Listening to metal helps. Very angsty music for the inner 13 year old in me.

puddler > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:45

know the feels. after my motorcycle wreck i hated for a whole 6 months. hit & run, plus allstate f****d me...i was in a bad place. once i started distancing myself from my more serious hates i could look at them from afar, so to speak, judge myself about why things bothered me, why i let them bother me... after another month or so i quit hating altogether. drugs and alcohol helped, but enlightening myself about myself was the step that moved me out of the pit. i haven't been able to seriously hate things in a couple of years now.

was gonna post a clip from chapelle's hater ball, but my interwebs is being dumb.

Arch Duke Maxyenko, Shit Talk Extraordinaire > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:47

Drink!

wrblue11 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:47

the more miserable you are, the more assholes you meet.

MtrRider > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:49

Kinja'd!!!

Are... are you mad at me?

YSI-what can brown do for you > Arch Duke Maxyenko, Shit Talk Extraordinaire
02/20/2014 at 23:50

I hate alcohol! Crazy I know.

MtrRider > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:52

I am 21! I am way past puberty.

If you say so. Nothing to be ashamed of being a little late to the party.

MtrRider > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:53

Are you eating enough fiber?

pfftballer > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:55

The answer everyone gives when randomly polled is always the same.

What do you want out of life?

Everyone answers, "to be happy."

Anger is not compatible with happiness.

At your age it's hard, you feel like a man but everyone still treats you like a kid. (per your perception)

Maybe it's how they see you react that makes them treat you this way. The enviable, classic confident, content, mature, stoic man is in total control of his emotions. I don't know if it's even achievable but I still try to be that. You have to learn to not take the bait. You don't have to look very far to find something to be mad about. Getting mad is easy, learning to let shit go and finding things to be happy about is much harder. Don't take the easy way out. That is your lesson son. Now go forth and let that shit slide.

Arch Duke Maxyenko, Shit Talk Extraordinaire > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:56

Drink good beer!

YSI-what can brown do for you > puddler
02/20/2014 at 23:56

You had a reason to hate everything. I have none, I am just angry for the sake of being angry. Nothing has happened to me!

YSI-what can brown do for you > MtrRider
02/20/2014 at 23:57

Maybe. . . maybe.

YSI-what can brown do for you > MtrRider
02/20/2014 at 23:58

Deez nuts son.

YSI-what can brown do for you > Arch Duke Maxyenko, Shit Talk Extraordinaire
02/20/2014 at 23:58

It all tastes like Iso Propyl.

#trollingbutnotreally

puddler > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/20/2014 at 23:58

even though i was justified in my anger doesn't mean it did me any good. just made it worse. no worries though, i bottled some...revenge is a dish best served cold.

YSI-what can brown do for you > pfftballer
02/21/2014 at 00:01

I don't actually talk to enough people for them to bait me into becoming angry. I am actually pretty good at hiding my anger.

I guess once I figure out what is annoying me, I will just let it go. But for now, it is figuring it out.

EL_ULY > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:07

Awww, I remember being 21 and angry at literally everything. My thrash metal band and working on cars in my corner bay was my only relief. Everything you can think of I just loathed hard. 7 years later, im married and just got home a little while ago from Petsmart buying my wife's Chihuahua a pink dress for her 1 year doggy birthday party on Saturday. Yup lol. I looked back and don't regret a thing from back then though. Ba k then it was like Phil Anselmo said, "fuck the world for all its worth, every inch of planet earth \m/" Things will get better though buddy.

PS: smallest drum set in metal history lol

MtrRider > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:07

Kinja'd!!!

pfftballer > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:09

Well it could be a lot of things at your age.

Pissed off because the real world isn't what you were raised to believe it was is a big one. That's what got me going in my 20s. Finding out everything you have been told is just wrong can be infuriating. It's like a kid finding out Santa Claus isn't real x 100. At some point you just have to accept things as they are, that's your starting point. You can work to improve your condition from there, but you aren't going to win many friends or girls going around all pissed off. Carrying negativity is like having a nasty contagious disease. People see it in you and run like hell. Good luck brother.

Stef Schrader > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:15

I know this feel.

I just want a nap, and maybe for the massage therapy lady to knead my back since it's starting to suck again, but I don't have time for either this week. I don't have time to take any long, satisfying number twos, flipping through Panorama ads for cheap 911SCs while farting merrily. I don't have time to hardly take a lunch break that's not at my desk, trying to plow through other stuff I have to get done and inhale food at the same time. I'm tired of constantly getting crapped on for the most random things. I feel like I suck at almost everything lately. (Exception: posting about the beater 944. I just can't fix the darn thing without ample help.) I keep getting SO discouraged by setting out to do something only to find out that I can't get it done myself.

My life is starting to feel a little monotonous. Same crap, different day. And LOTS of crap, to boot. I need to break this streak and hoon a Trabant or something. Sideways. Take up neon chartreuse Trabi drifting lessons. I dunno.

I haven't had time or a properly functioning vehicle to let it all out via some nice, calming racetrack laps for a couple months. That's one of my favorite ways to alleviate stress. I'm kind of worried that I've spent so much time working on the LeMon instead of driving anything that I've forgot how to not suck at driving. I'm not very good to begin with. This isn't good.

The thrill is gone. I'm always mad at everyone and everything. I need some nice alone time with a car that's not borked. Without people.

/whine, back to work.

YSI-what can brown do for you > wrblue11
02/21/2014 at 00:18

Haha, generally when you are angry you hate people for the smallest things.

YSI-what can brown do for you > EL_ULY
02/21/2014 at 00:26

It might work out, but from my view it doesn't seem that way. We will see though, gotta go in with a much better attitude though.

YSI-what can brown do for you > Stef Schrader
02/21/2014 at 00:32

I am carless as of right now. I left the car in a garage 200 miles north because of winter, but now the snow is all gone(Indiana weather. . .) . I wish I had it here though. Revving it out was so much fun, and so was driving it on backroads. I only wish I had a project car so I could try working on it. I will probably need help but I would just love to do it! I can't as of right now because I am in college. One day hopefully.

wrblue11 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:47

i hear you. but like you said, being angry all the time sucks. im not saying be a fucking cheerleader, but give people/situations/ yourself a chance more often. relax and enjoy it man, positive attitude, positive results

Singhjr96 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:49

HAHA, THAT BANANA @2:43. No fucks given.

YSI-what can brown do for you > Singhjr96
02/21/2014 at 00:52

That's a metal concert for you!

YSI-what can brown do for you > wrblue11
02/21/2014 at 00:53

I really really need to relax. I just need a way to do it.

Singhjr96 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:53

It looks like so much fun. I would love to go as a monkey and chase a friend in a banana suit across the stage. Imagine trying to mosh with a banana though, you just can't take it seriously. Like...it's a banana.

YSI-what can brown do for you > Singhjr96
02/21/2014 at 00:54

Just don't get caught in a mosh pit! I decided to participate in a wall of death, it was fun, I rolled over someone. It was a small one some of the bigger ones are ridiculous!

Singhjr96 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 00:59

Oh don't worry about me. Its yourself you need to worry about when I'm in there because I go H.A.M.

D > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 01:18

Smoke weed some with some people.

D > MtrRider
02/21/2014 at 01:20

I'm scared

I read this as "Are you eating enough carbon fiber?"

wrblue11 > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 01:35

everyone needs a release. i mountain bike(racing dominates my life and is a huge motivator), play hockey, and a little guitar . if i stay busy and focused on goals, i dont have time to get caught up in other peoples b.s.

YSI-what can brown do for you > D
02/21/2014 at 03:22

I would want to do weed, and I also need to know people.

D > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 03:34

Yeah I guess if you can find a group going to smoke that you can latch onto, that's ideal. Kind of what I did... never used substances before college; now all I do is get high once every two or three weeks with a big group of friends. They're always celebratory highs btw, not escapist highs.

YSI-what can brown do for you > D
02/21/2014 at 03:39

I generally prefer people that are stoned rather than people who are drunk. They are way less belligerent. I haven't really drank or used any sort of drugs. Don't want to either, but it sucks cause you can't really go to a party without feeling a bit awkward.

D > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 03:45

Well if you don't want to then stop right there—you've answered your own question.

I don't go to parties so I can't really help you with that situation.

YSI-what can brown do for you > D
02/21/2014 at 03:51

You are one of the few people that get it. A lot of people say "just try it" gets annoying after a bit. I haven't gone to a party so I honestly don't know how they work. Don't seem like fun though.

D > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 04:06

Yeah I sat through a few smoke circles before I decided I wanted to try. Why haven't I tried drinking? Not compelled to, and I won't try as long as I feel that way.

I have no idea how parties work either. I've made it this far with barely going to any and I don't feel incomplete at all... my Friday nights are far from typical. I dislike giant congregations, don't function well in them. I would like to meet some more people though

vicariousILive > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 09:39

When I actually became an adult and had to start providing for my wife and later a kid. Life gets pretty stressful and is easy to get pissed off.

Here is my go to song when I'm super pissed...

EL_ULY > YSI-what can brown do for you
02/21/2014 at 10:23

nah fuck that, be yourself. I was a walking disaster from hell. Trust me, work I stayed out of jail who know. True Texas hell raiser before I became my baby's teddy bear :] Still though, be angry, be awesome, be you \m/ Let it just happen man. Remember...

Kinja'd!!!

"Yesterday don't mean shit!"

-PANTERA