"ihm96" (ihm96)
05/11/2019 at 10:18 • Filed to: None
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"ihm96" (ihm96)
05/11/2019 at 10:18 • Filed to: None | 4
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My first ever real relationship, of about two years, is coming to and end and I’m struggling with it. We’ve been fighting a lot over the past year and as much as I do love her, I just have this nagging feeling that I’m missing something. She wants us to give it another chance, and as much as I can barely imagine living without her I think that it may just be me being afraid of change and hurting her. This is why I don’t like dating, you either marry them and spend your life or you end up having to hurt someone youve grown to truly truly care about.
Hope you guys are having better days. The pic is from a late night drive last night to clear my head
CarsofFortLangley - Oppo Forever
> ihm96
05/11/2019 at 10:29 |
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I’m always around to talk if you need
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ihm96
> CarsofFortLangley - Oppo Forever
05/11/2019 at 10:39 |
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I appreciate it. Honestly even just typing it out helped a little bit
E90M3
> ihm96
05/11/2019 at 11:24 |
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That is rough.
I thought I had finally met someone late last year, even spent NYE with her at a friend’s house. A week or so later we called it off, which is what this post was about , we had lunch together and talked about it and afterwards I had to go for a drive. I couldn’t stay in my apartment.
HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute
> ihm96
05/11/2019 at 13:56 |
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I hate this feeling...except she doesn’t want me anymore so fuck it...i’m done for another year or so, time to be an idiot teenager and go do idiot things like everyone else instead of dating and being serious sm-fucking-h
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ihm96
> HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute
05/11/2019 at 15:21 |
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Yeah I don’t see myself dating again until I’m ready to seriously commit honestly, but then again I’m 23 now so I don’t have too many fuck around years left if any
66P1800inpieces
> ihm96
05/11/2019 at 19:36 |
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People change. I am not the person I was 10 years ago, or 10 years before that. It’s a long haul, and for serious relationships spur of the moment might equate to a person that is great over many years, but probably not. I lucked out with a great woman who I hope to spend many more years with. Thankfully I let my 28 year old self do the thinking on that one. My 18-28 self was too much of an ass for anything serious.
Good luck!
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HondoyotaE38: A Japanese and German Collab...wait a minute
> ihm96
05/11/2019 at 19:44 |
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I’m always down for commitment but when it blows up in my face like this then that leaves me at a year of fucking around and doing things i probably shouldn’t until i again feel like i want something serious and am tired of the fakeness then the cycle repeats
RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
> ihm96
05/12/2019 at 09:38 |
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Sorry to hear mate...we’re all around if you need to speak your mind to get through these tough times...