"HammerheadFistpunch" (hammerheadfistpunch)
12/27/2018 at 12:29 • Filed to: None
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"HammerheadFistpunch" (hammerheadfistpunch)
12/27/2018 at 12:29 • Filed to: None | 4
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no car related content, but in case you were wondering.
Brother doesn’t hate me as much (i get the impression he’s more mad at me in solidarity with his wife), sister in law hates me more than I thought (she did not come to Christmas morning and refuses to even look at me and my wife).
Daughter is coming out of surgery right now and it seems to have gone well, now for the recovery... (picture of pre surgery)
I’m on my 3rd straight day of 5 or less hours of sleep
it finally snowed again.
random001
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:43 |
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Damn, dude. What did you do?
Also, glad your daughter is out. All went well? This crushes me...
Chuckles
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:43 |
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Maybe I missed it, but have these people said why they hate you or are they just assholes?
Brickman
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:47 |
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Screw those haters, you daughter and your life is all you need. And you wife, thats good too :)
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HammerheadFistpunch
> random001
12/27/2018 at 12:47 |
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The long story short is that they were pressuring my mom to sell them her house at 40 cents on the dollar so they could afford it and me and my other brother spoke up and she went from being uncomfortable with it to saying no.
its our fault obviously.
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HammerheadFistpunch
> Chuckles
12/27/2018 at 12:49 |
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according them them its because “jealousy and greed reared their ugly heads”
but it was really because we helped my mom see that selling our childhood house to the at a 60% discount wasn’t sitting right with the family.
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Chuckles
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:52 |
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Jealousy and greed? Sounds like they were trying to rip off your mom for a lot of money. That's pretty cold.
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random001
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:55 |
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Well, if it helps at all, I don’t hate you one bit.
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random001
> Chuckles
12/27/2018 at 12:56 |
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Like vacuum of space cold...
jimz
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 12:57 |
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so a couple of brats who thought they were entitled to your mom’s house for peanuts just because of who they are.
Are they Boomers? I have relatives like them too. e.g. a couple of my aunts on one side used to act like because my uncle was pretty well off, he should basically pay for everything and not expect anything borrowed from him to be paid back.
there’s a large chunk of my extended family I no longer see and I don’t feel poorer for it.
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jimz
> Chuckles
12/27/2018 at 13:00 |
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well, think about the typical Craigslist loony buyer, who thinks you’ll sell him something for $1500 when you’re asking $4000 because he has “cash in hand.”
now imagine it’s your son or nephew who thinks he’s entitled to such a deal because he’s your son (or nephew.)
I think these are probably people who have grown up being used to getting whatever it is they wanted just because they want it.
Cash Rewards
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 13:32 |
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I hope you’re doing well. Glad to hear your girl did well. She looks brave as hell; good for her. I went back and saw some other posts, and I hope this coming year brings to good news on som e of those fronts. I’ve been dealing with the idea that our family, while related, might not always be the best people. They can be selfish, or mean, or do dumb things for no discernible reason, and not be adult enough to stop and self r-r eflect and realize they're the problem. Im lucky my wife has helped make me who I am over the last 18 years together, but sucks that it makes me realize where I came from wasn't always the best. It's tough, and I wish you good luck!
Rusty Vandura - www.tinyurl.com/keepoppo
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 13:41 |
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I am happy to hear that your daughter’s surgery went well. Have you shared the nature of the surgery?
Integrity: you haz it.
sister in law hates me more than I thought
Was 40% her idea?
People gotta decide what they want in their lives.
OPPOsaurus WRX
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 14:11 |
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my wife and I were talking and couldn’ t believe our son had his surg e ry 6 months ago. Hope everything is ok with her. My wife’s cousin doesn’ t like me. Threes gutta be one in every family.
Dr. Zoidberg - RIP Oppo
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 15:24 |
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Hah, fuck 'em.
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HammerheadFistpunch
> jimz
12/27/2018 at 16:36 |
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I would characterize them as people who feel life has natural progressions to it regardless of being earned.
i.e. I’ve lived in a house for 5 years, its time for a bigger one. No it doesn’t matter you can’t afford it, its that time in your life to have more.
I should also point out they weren’t asking for 60% off, per-se, because they were asking for their inheritance in advance to cover the difference. But as we all know - affording the payments and affording the thing are 2 very different things...and they couldn’t even afford more than 40% of the payments.
Maybe I should have let it go but the truth is my mom wasn’t really happy about it either, she just wanted to sell the house to someone in the family so she didn’t have to say goodbye to it when her and her new husband moved into a new place together. I think she’s realized what a mistake it was to pursue that end.
WilliamsSW
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 17:05 |
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Sounds like jealousy and greed did rear their ugly heads but they’re projecting hard.
Glad the surgery went well!!!
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HammerheadFistpunch
> WilliamsSW
12/27/2018 at 17:25 |
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Thats kinda how I feel about it.
gmporschenut also a fan of hondas
> HammerheadFistpunch
12/27/2018 at 19:35 |
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sorry I’ve been a bit out, good to hear your daughter is doin g well!