Night Oppo

"K-Roll-PorscheTamer" (k-roll390) 08/31/2015 at 02:40 • Filed to: Night

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Another one of those sleepless too much thinking nights. Wondering what’s wrong my introverted self, trying to figure out if I can become an emotionless Vulcan, and telling myself that being a single loner is much more beneficial and relationships are not ever worth a damn thing, because then I don’t have to deal with bullshit. Also, trying to figure out why I can't she's anymore lbs no matter how much more I try and exercise..-_-

On a side(somewhat positive?) note, I love my 944. I’m quite positive in the fact that it’ll always be more reliable than any relationship I ever find myself in, if I ever consider even trying to pursue one ever again. Even when it breaks down, at least it’ll always be by my side!! How do I know this, you might be wondering. I have a god damn time machine, that’s how.

CCC (formerly CyclistCarCoexist) > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 04:17

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I've gone to the point of a human that gives no fucks about relationships all together and just caring about school, cars, and TV shows/movies. It's like how Abed understands the world.

Echo51 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 04:28

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Hahah yes, i feel this. Cars are always there tho, even if they tend to die eventually like humans aswell. Well, can always cage and race it once it goes unworthy of road use...

Tohru > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 04:43

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Shark-Attack > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 05:30

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I find when I actively pursue relationships it just doesn’t work out. The good ones will come when they come, just focus on yourself and your 944 in the meantime. The more you build yourself up, the better you’ll fair, not only in relationships, but life in general.

E92M3 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 08:25

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Trust me stay SINGLE! Nothing hurts worse than spending half your life with someone only to find out they can’t be trusted. And having to lie to your 5 yr old when you tell him why mommy and daddy are not living together anymore, so he won’t think poorly of his mother.

Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 08:53

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I tell myself to stay single, doesn’t work. Soon enoughI find myself in over my head...but honestly being with her makes me happier than say driving or anything car related.

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > E92M3 08/31/2015 at 09:19

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Was not expecting those feels.....

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > E92M3 08/31/2015 at 10:08

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K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras 08/31/2015 at 10:09

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Oh well how good for you

E92M3 > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 08/31/2015 at 10:11

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Me either man... I don’t mean to bring down your Monday, but if only I had listened to all those older gents who warned me to never get married.

Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 08/31/2015 at 10:17

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to each his own

JGrabowMSt > Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras 08/31/2015 at 12:35

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This times a million. I had a very rough weekend with the other half, and as much as I would have loved to go to car shows and drive around and cause a little mayhem with the HEMIWagon, she is more important. Not having her house to drive to and from, not going on long drives or trips with her would ruin things for me for a long time.

I tell other people to learn to be happy single first, then try to look for a relationship. If you don’t know what you want, how can you get it from someone else? Finding the right co-driver is difficult, and can take years. You can be wrong a number of times before finding the right person, but you just have to have the patience to pick yourself back up and sort through things. Perfection is a dream, but working towards a stable, healthy relationship should be your #1 goal.

It’s fully normal to feel in over your head though...if relationships were easy, what would be the point?

Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras > JGrabowMSt 08/31/2015 at 13:00

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true that..just at 21 I always thought life would be a smoother ride

JGrabowMSt > Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras 08/31/2015 at 13:07

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I read a very interesting article a few years ago about how younger people in established relationships have a better time dealing with the stresses of demanding jobs, mainly due to the support system they get to go home to. I’m about to take the plunge into moving in with the other half in a few weeks hopefully, and we’ve been together long enough that I think we’ll be just fine. Knowing what I know now, I’m scared for some couples that get married or move in very quickly. It works for some, but it’s very disastrous for many. I think waiting is just fine. You learn how to respect each other’s space much better taking your time.

Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras > JGrabowMSt 08/31/2015 at 13:18

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I completely agree with that. I’ve seen quite a few of my friends move in and then out with their boy/girlfriends and other SO’s. I’m not about to dive head first into getting married, but honestly moving in somewhere is high(ish) on my list of ‘To Do’s”

JGrabowMSt > Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras 08/31/2015 at 14:51

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Have you vacationed (or stay-cationed) together just yourselves for a few days at a time? I did this with my girlfriend the past few years, and it varied from a long weekend to a whole week of just us, and it’s a huge thing. I think the stay-cations were far more telling about the relationship though, because we would house sit together and went through all the same basics as if we owned the house from cooking, cleaning lawn work, etc. It’s nice to walk away knowing the bills aren’t your problem, but simply being able to handle the day to day tasks and be able to go to bed without being crabby about it is a really really major thing.

More than anything, I’m looking forward to having another couple hours a day of not driving all over hell just to get where I’m going. Getting to bed a little earlier would be nice too, and it would probably help her get better sleep too to get to bed earlier as well.

Supreme Chancellor and Glorious Leader SaveTheIntegras > JGrabowMSt 08/31/2015 at 15:28

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I have parents who have always given me a rather long leash...and enjoy their own vacations out of the blue so that leaves my house empty on the weekends. She use to stay with me on a more consistent basis.

Tohru > Echo51 08/31/2015 at 19:08

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If you cage your car and beat the hell out of it people think it’s cool. Do that to your girlfriend and you get arrested.

Echo51 > Tohru 09/01/2015 at 03:03

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Honestly, i’m seriously tempted to do it once mine can’t be patched up for road use anymore. But it’d be put in the same class that dad races and im not sure if he wants the competition :D

Despite, my car doesn’t beg to be taken out to expensive dinners or have long table conversations. A slight caressing while she gulps down her many liters of fuel does wel...

Mercedes Streeter > Echo51 09/01/2015 at 17:02

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“A slight caressing while she gulps down her many liters of fuel...”