I too have homecoming troubles.

"Vince-The Roadside Mechanic" (vincent-becker) 09/10/2014 at 18:45 • Filed to: None

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I was going to ask this girl and we got along good BUT lately she has been a bitch to me. For example in home room I had a question and I sit in the front of the class and I said "does anyone have.." and before I could say the class she said "nope, turn around." WTF! And I literally asked what time it was and no answer. She won't even give me the God damn time of day!!! I tell some jokes on occasion and everyone laughs but her even her bitchy friend laughs but the girl I liked says..."Why the hell do you people think this is funny?"

So it looks like I will be going alone this year. *sigh*

For Sweden > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:48

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I was going to ask this girl

Based on your description...why?

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:49

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Or......you could just not go? My friends and I often skipped and just ran around town and did stuff while everyone else was at homecoming. Best night for laser tag and bowling. Just have everyone dress up in suits and dresses and have a blast. You're surprisingly better at laser tag when you're in formal attire.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > For Sweden 09/10/2014 at 18:50

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We got along good before and....she is really cute. But now I say fuck it.

$kaycog > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:51

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I don't understand why you like this girl. She sounds like a real loser.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 09/10/2014 at 18:51

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I want to dance like a maniac.

For Sweden > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:52

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Eh, acceptable. Lots of people long after attractive jerks.

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:52

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Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > $kaycog 09/10/2014 at 18:52

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We got along good before but now she has changed or something. She thinks I am a genuine asshole now and I haven't changed soooo yeah.

mcseanerson > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:53

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Maybe she likes you and is just being a bitch for some obscure thing she's decided she's pissed at you for.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > For Sweden 09/10/2014 at 18:53

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I don't want a girl that is a jerk to me.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 09/10/2014 at 18:54

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haha good one.

For Sweden > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:54

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Then not asking her to this function is a good choice.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > mcseanerson 09/10/2014 at 18:55

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Um no and WTF did I do that she is pissed about?

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > For Sweden 09/10/2014 at 18:56

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Indeed.

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:56

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My not so expert opinion - you both changed. You're both in high school. But you know what doesn't change? Miatas. Forget people, love miatas in high school. Less heartache. Fewer STDs. Less pregnancy scares. Your parents will still kill you if you're caught together being out way past curfew.

$kaycog > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 18:57

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Don't even try to figure it out. Women don't even understand women.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 09/10/2014 at 18:57

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I don't want a Miata.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > $kaycog 09/10/2014 at 19:00

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Ok but even though I don't want to take her anymore I want to know why she hates me. Sidenote: I think she want to date my friend so fuck me.

mcseanerson > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:00

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It's always some obscure thing. When your older and married they'll hit you first thing when you wake up because you did something in a dream. It's BS.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > mcseanerson 09/10/2014 at 19:03

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LOL WTF?

mcseanerson > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:06

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Yeah, just think of everything you have to look forward to.

$kaycog > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:07

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I don't have a clue.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > mcseanerson 09/10/2014 at 19:09

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Ok...I got nothing.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > $kaycog 09/10/2014 at 19:11

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Nor do I. Girls that I like that like me are few and far between.

Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:16

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Maybe she liked you and then you waited to long. That can piss them off.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies 09/10/2014 at 19:17

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I waited a fucking week? And nooooo one has asked any one yet.

$kaycog > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:19

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Patience, grasshopper.

brzedr1 > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:20

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Ask her.

She might say "no."

She might say "yes."

TheBloody, Oppositelock lives on in our shitposts. > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:20

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Can confirm, my wife was pissed at me Monday morning because she dreamed that I fucked this woman she hates at work. Truth be told this woman is pretty hot so I would not kick her out of bed for eating cookies.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > $kaycog 09/10/2014 at 19:21

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I know but I am getting tired of this whole thing.

Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:22

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I dunno, I didn't necessarily just mean for the dance though. The way you've worded things, it sounded like you've known her for a little while.

Steve in Manhattan > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:23

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Don't know what grade you're in, but in 10 years this will be invisible in your rearview. Ask her, if she says no you've lost nothing. You being kind to her might snap her out of her high school funk.

And who knows - she might be pissy because she thought you'd have asked already.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > brzedr1 09/10/2014 at 19:25

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or my face and balls will be hurting.

$kaycog > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:26

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Put it behind you. She's not worth you stewing over it.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies 09/10/2014 at 19:26

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Not a very long time.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > Steve in Manhattan 09/10/2014 at 19:27

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Thanks for believing that she likes me back.

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > $kaycog 09/10/2014 at 19:29

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I am trying but there is that little part of me that can't stop thinking about her.

Steve in Manhattan > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:35

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Back when I did this sort of thing, I thought my dream high school prom date wouldn't bother. But I tried anyway - she came home to DC from Hofstra U in NY to go with me. Glad I asked. We didn't wind up together of course, but high school relationships that succeed in the long term are rare. But we had a great time that night.

brzedr1 > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:47

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Ten years from now, you'll recall this vague memory in one of three ways:

1. You asked; she accepted. You barely remember homecoming together.

2. You asked; she declined. You chuckle at the thought of ever fretting over this.

3. You never asked, and the 'What If?' stays with you.

Don't let the 'What Ifs?' control tomorrow just because you're shy of a 'yes' or 'no' today.

You outgrow the shyness; you never outgrow the 'What Ifs.'

Vince-The Roadside Mechanic > brzedr1 09/10/2014 at 19:53

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Fuck. Thanks for making me face my fears.

brzedr1 > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 19:56

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Save your fear for something scary.

You have my support! Cheers!

Conan > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 21:18

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Maybe she wants to be first. Ask her and if she says no move onto someone who would be fun to hang with (if there are any.) Next move is a non Homecoming party with friends.

Jordan and the Slowrunner, Boomer Intensifies > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/10/2014 at 22:31

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If it's any longer than the past week, and she has sent signs and you waited... She will unjust-fully resent you for a while. A large percentage of the female population don't get that we need to be told things, not hinted at.

CallMeTURBO > brzedr1 09/11/2014 at 05:56

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keep oppo like, deep, mann

theuserformerlyknownasaluminumfoil > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/11/2014 at 11:36

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You want a girl that jerks YOU off - amirite people?¿

theuserformerlyknownasaluminumfoil > Vince-The Roadside Mechanic 09/11/2014 at 11:38

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Maybe she's jealous that you're a funny guy. Maybe she wants some attention now.