Maybe she's the one.

"Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy" (zipppyart)
07/07/2014 at 03:17 • Filed to: None

A bit over a month ago, I was dragged into a group chat by a friend. Some girl in the chat fell for me almost immediately, and even more after a Skype session.

Anyway, the other day, she asked me about my current dream car, after asking me what I drive. After posting a picture of my dream car, she knew what it was right away, and she loves Mazdas, especially Miatas. She also missed her dad's old one, which I assume was an NA.

What have I gotten myself into? She also finds me the coolest and hottest guy she's ever seen, even compared to her BF, and she said I look like a hotter version of Andrew Garfield.

She's out in Wisconsin, and I'm in South Eastern Canada.. and I don't understand why she has a crush on me, especially when she's taken.

Shall I run or taker her in?

DISCUSSION (20)

DancesWithRotors - Driving Insightfully > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 03:23

Go for it. Worst case, you've still got a friend.

Anon > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 03:25

And thus it was said in the book of bro, "A bro shall not under any circumstances steal another bro's honey, lest the same fate befall upon upon the honey snatcher at a later date."

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > Anon
07/07/2014 at 03:27

That's why I'm a bit weary, she's taken by another dude, I don't want anyone to cheat. Very much like another friend of mine had happen to him this past week. His girlfriend just left him for a younger guy. My friend blew up on me pretty much about it, and went on a raging spree over the phone.

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 04:15

She's going nuts over my new headphones.

Kinja'd!!!

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 04:44

Well bro, you seem to have quite a crush on your hands :D
my suggestion is to be friendly and playful, but don't do anything just yet, since she does have a BF

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power
07/07/2014 at 04:58

I didn't do anything, but she's falling for me somehow. I am being nice and playful, because she's hitting on me.

Stapleface-Now Hyphenated! > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 05:08

The only word of advice I have is good luck. I had a girlfriend years ago who was like that but she turned out to be a nutcase and a total mooch. Hopefully that's not the case.

But, seeing as how you're in different countries and all, I'm not sure how that would even work between you too.

And as was mentioned before, talking to her is cool. But thou shall not steal another guy's woman.

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > Stapleface-Now Hyphenated!
07/07/2014 at 05:24

This girl even admits she's a little crazy, but she seems independent.

RotaryLover > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 05:55

She had a bf...but that's a detail in my book. Her bf could be a dick and you might end up with her because she would be tired of the guy. At the same time, 3 things crosses my mind. If she leave him for you with ease, she could (and I say COULD) do the same trick on you if she finds someone better. Then you got the "I think I still love my ex" *leaves* moment that could happen. Also remote relationships are hard...unless you plan to do your weekends at Wisconsin...

In the end, I'd go for it. Nothing to lose. Say something like "Too bad you have a bf. You're my kind of girl" and see her reaction.

BiTurbo228 - Dr Frankenstein of Spitfires > Anon
07/07/2014 at 06:45

Machiavelli's code: 'fuck the book of bro, acquire honeys'

DanielJames > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 07:04

If I could give you one bit of advice, car guy to car guy, it would be to avoid car girls.

Although this is advice that is hard to take, so you might have to go for it and see. Unfortunately they are going to be nutjobs, ASWs (attention seeking whores) etc. If she likes horses too, you're fucked.

Btw, doesn't she say she has a BF? You could never trust her.

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > DanielJames
07/07/2014 at 07:12

Avoid car girls

I never heard that one..

She does have a BF, and I have seen him. He's in Wisconsin for his education, and is from LA. He's also in the group chat I was pulled into.

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > RotaryLover
07/07/2014 at 07:13

The guy is pretty chill, originally from LA, but is in Wisconsin for his education.

DanielJames > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 07:59

Make sure you respect the dude before you go further. I doubt he's aware of her talking to other guys.

He's probably out banging chicks in Wisconsin sure, but you can't do a dirty upon the assumption of that. Play it cool I'd say. Car girls are fun, just don't let them too far into your circle - I've seen many good men get crushed by them.

yamahog > DanielJames
07/07/2014 at 08:19

Gee, some quality advice there, I'll go tell my boyfriend to fuck off since apparently I'm just a nutjob "ASW."

NotUnlessRoundIsFunny > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 08:41

Zathros say: Not the one. Not the one. Much apologizings.

yamahog > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 09:15

I never heard that one..

Yea, I'd disregard it, that guy seems like an overgeneralizing idiot. But then again apparently I'm a "nutjob ASW," (along with Stef, $kay, Ferraro1911, etc), so what do I know?

RotaryLover > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/07/2014 at 18:31

Is he a friend?

Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy > RotaryLover
07/08/2014 at 02:07

He's chill, but not a friend exactly.

RotaryLover > Zipppy, Mazdurp builder, Probeski owner and former ricerboy
07/08/2014 at 02:15

Looking at the convo...she seems too much into it...