"RacecaR" (RacecaR)
02/11/2014 at 16:58 • Filed to: None
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"RacecaR" (RacecaR)
02/11/2014 at 16:58 • Filed to: None | 1
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One little sentence.
One little sentence is all it took, and my day was semi-ruined. A flood of crap came rushing back into my heart/head. The self doubt. The slight pain. The slight deflation of my ego.
Oh well, onward and upward.
Doge_Supreme drives a BRZ
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 16:59 |
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What sentence?
PatBateman
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:00 |
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"I missed my period"?
"My dad wants to meet you at the gun range"?
"How do you feel about me getting a pink Prius"?
BugEyedBimmer - back in the Saddle Dakota Leather
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:00 |
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Forget her. Women often don't appreciate what they have, and won't admit they screwed up once they lose it.
There's better out there, and that's exactly what you deserve.
Reigntastic
> PatBateman
02/11/2014 at 17:02 |
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The first one is enough to strike terror in any young man's heart... my girlfriend did that for April fools last year, I was not pleased in the slightest.
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Doge_Supreme drives a BRZ
> PatBateman
02/11/2014 at 17:07 |
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"I have something to tell you" followed by a long pause. My GF got me with that last night, just to say " I love you" after about 5 minutes. The first time i met her dad was at a gun range.
Brian, The Life of
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:07 |
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Let me guess, "Is it in?"
I'M KIDDING!
Seriously ... what was the lamentable sentence?
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RacecaR
> BugEyedBimmer - back in the Saddle Dakota Leather
02/11/2014 at 17:10 |
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Thanks, but not really fitting in this instance. I mean, it was a women, but not my significant other (I'm happily married). This woman I work with just really hung me out to dry (my opinion).
Cliff notes: I'm anti-social/shy. I do not open up easily. I did to this woman, tried to be friends with someone new. Got crushed, horribly after about 1.5 years of what I thought was a great blossoming friendship. Didn't hurt she is very attractive, charming, funny, intelligent, and down to earth. My wife knew I had a crush on this woman as well. Didn't bother her. I'm faithful and my wife knows that. No harm no foul. So I gave up months ago after it was made clear to me that she obviously was not on the same page as I was. But then she said something today that made me think about all of that again. Just had to get it off my chest.
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PatBateman
> Reigntastic
02/11/2014 at 17:10 |
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I don't care how sick of a sense of humor someone has: THAT SHIT ISNT FUNNY.
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PatBateman
> Doge_Supreme drives a BRZ
02/11/2014 at 17:12 |
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That's mean.
And as long as all guns are pointed down range and everyone is smiling in a non-evil way , it's all good.
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BugEyedBimmer - back in the Saddle Dakota Leather
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:12 |
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My comment still holds weight to some degree then. If you're that guarded and shy, then you probably make a great confidant.
Her loss.
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RacecaR
> Brian, The Life of
02/11/2014 at 17:12 |
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Ouch. I think I would cry if I ever heard that.
ddavidn
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:13 |
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This is likely why people such as you and me are anti-social. Seems it does more harm than good to let your guard down...
Er, I'm probably not helpful...
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Reigntastic
> PatBateman
02/11/2014 at 17:14 |
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She's normally about as twisted with her humor as I am. My only response was if she had the money to split the cost of a trip to planned parenthood.... So simple, yet absolutely the best I've ever been pranked on April Fool's.
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RacecaR
> BugEyedBimmer - back in the Saddle Dakota Leather
02/11/2014 at 17:14 |
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Thanks. That is basically what I came to realize. I even talked it over with my wife when it all fell apart, and she kind of said the same thing. Her loss of a good friend.
I mean, I have to work with this woman. I am still "friendly" with her, and professional, and cordial, but reserved, like I am with everyone else.
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BugEyedBimmer - back in the Saddle Dakota Leather
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:16 |
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I get it man. We spend almost as many waking hours with our coworkers as we do with our SOs. It's hard to not be able to trust those people.
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RacecaR
> ddavidn
02/11/2014 at 17:16 |
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Nope, you are right on. I was talking to one of my two best buddies about it and basically used lots of profanity and how I never should have tried to be a "better person" for making new friends. Went back into my shell and closed off to everyone else again. Still have those I care for in my tiny circle (more of a triangle since it is only 3 people) of friends and called it done.
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ddavidn
> RacecaR
02/11/2014 at 17:37 |
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Yup. Done.
I had a lot of friends once, luckily I made them over the internet so one day I just quit using IRC, my life got a lot better. I have my wife now, and my brother and immediate family. That's plenty of people for me...