Is it Time to Isolate Ourselves a Little More?

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10/02/2014 at 17:53 • Filed to: None

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Post after the jump.

Now, the question is pretty self explanatory. The recent changes to Gawker have made it easier than ever to cross the once very separate places in the Gawkersphere and it seems to only have made things worse. Sharing posts about very serious subjects leads to inevitable drama, which hunts and generally rude things being done and said. And for better or worse we are a primarily white, male community, and even with the anonymous nature of the internet its easy to not think about it, but it still is a fact, and it does affect our opinions on these serious subjects. Now I'm not saying to ignore these serious subjects, but if I have a vested interest in social justice or equality I would go to Jezebel and Groupthink, in the same way that if I had any interest in what Apples latest sweeter is I would go to Gizmodo. It just may be time to post a link instead of an entire post, politics and these issues being posted after the jump being enforced a bit more, or maybe just not post them at all. I'm here cause I like cars and the people. I've seen things change greatly over the past 6 years or so, and nothing can tear a group of people apart like politics, and I dont want to see that happen.

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DISCUSSION (39)


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 17:55

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Maybe branching OPPO off into it's own separate site? It'll probably never happen though, Haha.


Kinja'd!!! Jayhawk Jake > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 17:57

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I think everyone needs to think before they post. Does this belong on OPPO?

I'm not saying to get rid of everything off topic, but it's pretty clear what belongs and what doesn't. Maybe if there's something off topic but personal you post it on your personal blog and post a link on the main page.

Oh, and fucking reposts: cut that shit out. It's getting ridiculous.


Kinja'd!!! Nibbles > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 17:58

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I offer myself as admin. Got a spare server laying around and can switch to business class any time. Who wants to buy a domain?


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Nibbles
10/02/2014 at 17:59

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We could always try to start a fund of some sort.

I'd also offer my soul to the NOT KINJA GODS to be an admin.


Kinja'd!!! Sweet Trav > Jayhawk Jake
10/02/2014 at 18:01

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Reposts haha, its like nah bro no one cares about your neon. You know how i'm talking about.

I mean rule one is dont be a dick. right?

You wanna stir the pot? Say the toyota tercel is far better than the Miata. dont post shit for the specific purpose of upsetting people.


Kinja'd!!! Jayhawk Jake > Sweet Trav
10/02/2014 at 18:06

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Reposts have gotten ridiculous. No one replied? That means they didn't care, get over it. The morning crowd/evening crowd thing is dumb: people will scroll back and see it.

If it's a repost for an upcoming event that's fine, trying to keep people reminded is okay by me.

Theres been way too much self promotion here. One guy reposes his cars and coffee videos every other day, and that's all he ever posts. Then theres a few writers who post their stories and links to their websites every few hours it feels like.

It's getting old


Kinja'd!!! Sweet Trav > Jayhawk Jake
10/02/2014 at 18:07

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I dont even mind once for the Morning crowd and once for the Evening crowd, but reposting a story more than once is a bit... desperate.


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Jayhawk Jake
10/02/2014 at 18:08

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Agreed, a member on here who actually hangs around quite often reposted one post about 3 times a day for about 4 days.

I HATE reposts, as you said below. If nobody replied, nobody cares.

Also hour rule in the AM hours needs to go.


Kinja'd!!! Nibbles > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:11

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I would venture to guess though that someone / some entity owns "Oppositelock".


Kinja'd!!! bob and john > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 18:16

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I just keep my mouth shut at this point.
I know I stirred stuff on sunday, took said post down and tried to contain after math. I think I did, but it seems that its only been since that that so many posts concerning this topic have popped up.

REALLY not sure what is going on, but man how I wish I could have not posted what I did, even though I did update that it was fake.

Well, hindsight is 20/20. Lessons learned on my part.


Kinja'd!!! thebigbossyboss > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:21

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I am on oppo very early most mornings. I don't understand why you hate hour rule. If noone has posted in one entire hour...a gratuitous car porn isn't hurting anything. it's not contributing much...but noone else is contributing anything at all.


Kinja'd!!! Sweet Trav > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:23

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what is hour rule?


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > thebigbossyboss
10/02/2014 at 18:23

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Wait, I thought hour rule was closing off the comments an hour after the post?


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Nibbles
10/02/2014 at 18:24

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Then we can call it "Oppositemock."


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Sweet Trav
10/02/2014 at 18:24

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I thought it was something to do with no more comments an hour after the post, but I think I'm mistaken.


Kinja'd!!! Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell. > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:24

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Hour rule fills dead time, don't see why it's a problem.


Kinja'd!!! thebigbossyboss > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:28

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Nope. Hour rule means if noone has posted in an hour then you can post some random internet car porn. Just to keep things moving. Has nothing to do with comments.


Kinja'd!!! Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell. > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 18:31

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It's what you get for having a fairly open forum with an active community. Once you start restricting it more heavily you lose some of that. There are a couple inflammatory posts (mainly the girl advice ones that can be in poor taste) but that's the way it goes. Live and let live, click in what you want.


Kinja'd!!! Roadster Man > Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell.
10/02/2014 at 18:47

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I dunno what is going on around here, but it seems that many people are forgetting the fact that they get to choose what they click on...


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell.
10/02/2014 at 18:47

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Ok, I misunderstood the point of it at first.


Kinja'd!!! jkm7680 > thebigbossyboss
10/02/2014 at 18:48

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Got it, Somebody told me a while back it was to do with the comments Haha.


Kinja'd!!! Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell. > Roadster Man
10/02/2014 at 18:56

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Yup, different people like different stuff. I agree on a couple points, some of the personal stuff can be a little offensive on the odd occasion and more than one repost of something is too much. Otherwise 99% of the stuff is fine.


Kinja'd!!! thebigbossyboss > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 18:59

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That lying scoundrel! Another mystery is revealed!


Kinja'd!!! Roadster Man > Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell.
10/02/2014 at 19:05

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I didn't even know people were re-posting just to get back to the top. Everyone can see the "NEXT PAGE" button on the bottom. That's just silly. I always thought there was an unspoken rule that if you make a post, you only make it once. This isn't a for-sale forum. No "bumps."

I just skip over the personal stuff, but I can imagine it can get weird and offensive. If people gotta vent, go for it. I'm just not gonna read it. No harm done, but most are probably better off keeping it to themselves.


Kinja'd!!! KoenigSTIGg > Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell.
10/02/2014 at 19:18

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It's mostly comments that he is talking about. There are people that will come from other sites and spam posts with comments about their opinions on something if someone from oppo said something that offended them.


Kinja'd!!! Twingo Tamer - About to descend into project car hell. > Roadster Man
10/02/2014 at 19:21

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Yup I think people need to pick their times better if they want more views instead of the reposts. That said it doesnt bother me much.

The personal stuff has caused some blow ups in the past, one with K roll in particular. I've vented before on here but like to keep it vague and dont actually state my problems, basically making a post as a distraction. People who specifically list their issues might find its not the best thing to do in certain cases.


Kinja'd!!! Jayhawk Jake > jkm7680
10/02/2014 at 19:22

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hour rule is fine as far as I'm concerned. Usually just a picture of a car, it doesn't crowd anything. I'd much rather have hour rule posts than reposts of a longer article that no one is interested in


Kinja'd!!! All Motor Is Best Motor > Jayhawk Jake
10/02/2014 at 20:50

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Seriously, can we keep the drama to Reddit or Facebook? I come to Oppo for automotive/vehicular/other hobbies, not to witness angry rants. I'm okay with some people asking for help/advice with personal issues once in a while, but this latest incident is unacceptable. I know people have strong opinions on things and wish to voice them but Oppo is not the place. Personally, I ignore it and don't even acknowledge I'm aware of its existence.


Kinja'd!!! Dsscats > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 22:41

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It seems kind of silly to throw away years of community over a couple conflicts.

I've been here for 4 years. I've been here for numerous Kinja changes. I've been yelled at and done my fair share of yelling. I'm not about to leave.

I do tend to agree with Jayhawk Jake though.

Please note: The following is the pot calling the kettle black. I have been guilty of this before, but will try to stop.

Reposts can get kind of ridiculous. If it's an event, great. If it's 5 pictures from Autocross, nah.

I'm not saying they should be banned, but I don't really see the point of NSFW posts.

The amount of gibberish posts tends to get kind of ridiculous towards the evening.

Think: Do Opponauts want to read/see this?


Kinja'd!!! Dsscats > All Motor Is Best Motor
10/02/2014 at 22:45

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I don't want to put anyone down, but I tend to agree. I have seen said person's post and no one is perfect. The first post was kind of an attack and, unless a huge chunk of that was deleted, I don't really see a reason for the rant.


Kinja'd!!! Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis > Dsscats
10/02/2014 at 22:46

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Oh I'm not thinking of leaving or anything. But clearly things need to change. Number 4 is a big deal right now.


Kinja'd!!! Dsscats > Nibbles
10/02/2014 at 22:49

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Someone said that it might be Porsche914/6. Not sure though.


Kinja'd!!! Dsscats > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/02/2014 at 22:52

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Yeah, and I'm sad at how often I've been guilty of it. It seems like when there were less people ~2 years ago, the posts were less frequent but the quality was much higher.


Kinja'd!!! Nibbles > Dsscats
10/02/2014 at 23:12

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Yes sir that would be whom


Kinja'd!!! Dsscats > Nibbles
10/02/2014 at 23:12

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Huh, now I know.


Kinja'd!!! All Motor Is Best Motor > Dsscats
10/02/2014 at 23:30

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People need to basically keep their shit to themselves and let's just all play nice. Everyone's happier that way.


Kinja'd!!! intheweeds > Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis
10/04/2014 at 18:36

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"...for better or worse we are a primarily white, male community, and even with the anonymous nature of the internet its easy to not think about it, but it still is a fact, and it does affect our opinions on these serious subjects. Now I'm not saying to ignore these serious subjects, but if I have a vested interest in social justice or equality I would go to Jezebel and Groupthink..."

In the context of a post asking if oppo should isolate itself, saying this REALLY sounds like you're trying to make oppo into some kind of weird mad men sexism/white supremacy group. Either that or you think it always has been. I mean really. What you just said is that oppo is mostly white men and you want to keep it that way by potentially isolating. Furthermore you don't really care about outside opinions, if you did, you would go somewhere else, but you don't so it can be inferred that you don't care. Okay fine, but that sounds really not cool dude. In fact, I'm sure you wish I hadn't even said this because if you wanted the opinions of people who are not white men, you would have asked and you didn't. Idk dude. Enjoy your white male car club.

#NoMA'AM

#WhitePower


Kinja'd!!! Dwhite - Powered by Caffeine, Daft Punk, and Corgis > intheweeds
10/04/2014 at 19:30

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That was a kind way of saying it doesn't matter what we say to many of those that engage in these topics because to them my opinion is purely skin deep and the fact that I am white and male means a hell of a lot more than the words I speak. Especially to those that dig up old posts for the soul purpose of stiring up shit.

I didn't say I was white, I was merely making a comment on the demographics of Jalopnik. But thanks for your assumption. Looking at the rest of the assumptions you have made, you have proven the point I was trying to make.

And on your final point, you don't know anything about me. You wouldn't know that I have an two sisters and a mother that I care for more anything in the world, and a friend group made up primarily of women, the concerns that they have and the opinions they hold shape my opinions on these topics. You wouldn't know that I have an alcoholic father that strengthens my bond with the women in my family. You wouldn't know that one of my best friends is gay, and I stick up for that entire community every chance I get. You wouldn't know that I grew up in one of the most diverse parts of the state I live in and thinks its different and weird to be in a place that is not sufficiently diverse. You wouldn't know any of that, but because you fucking THINK I am white and that I made of post on a fucking car blog, to keep the subject on fucking cars, you have the audacity to say I am both sexist and racist. Keep both your childish hash tags and absurdly condescending attitude for some other part of Kinja.


Kinja'd!!! Conan > intheweeds
10/04/2014 at 20:11

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I'd turn that about and say that I understand why Groupthink isolated themselves more and that I think he was trying to echo that rather than some sort of extremist power trip.